The Crush again

The Crush wrote that I was his only blond crush ever. Does that make me the proverbial dumb blond? I wonder. I got a lovely e-mail from his SO telling me about her background and that her ancestry goes back to the Mayflower. I told her in return that my American ancestry starts and stops with me. It was a very nice exchange and the nun commented that I should become friends with her and drop the Crush. Could happen.
I went after the Crush again with words like celibate and chaste and brotherly/sisterly love. "Chaste" does not seem to be in his vocabulary. He wants to relieve his crush in a worldly manner (heavy breathing into the keyboard - well, not quite, but you get the picture) and now that I put a fence up he does not know how to communicate. He can only express his feelings is in a worldly and in the flesh manner and I am thinking: Lord, why me?  We went around this issue of chastity a second time now and he wrote back that he won't communicate his "feelings" any longer. I replied that feelings can be expressed as long as they are expressed in a chaste manner. I wrote the "devil is in the detail." I wonder if he sees the humor in this. I doubt it. He seems to be in this all or nothing mode. I wanted to write him that I went to Adoration yesterday and today but he would not know what that was and probably think I adored him in a silent corner for a while.