Romantic Spat

Well the Crush and I had our first spat. The original problem was duplicity. Well, we solved that. Now the problem is that when I told him that I prefer a celibate and CHASTE life, he really has no clue what chaste means. That one could be unchaste by e-mail does not seem to occur to him. That is ROMANCE to him. That I don't want to relieve the romantic details of a hormone driven seventeen year old, he does not get. So we will go at it again.....Heaven help me. How many women have this problem at my age?